via Rational Male
I use the same system, except:
No = 6
Yes = 10
It’s funny calling whales 6’s and framing the girl you want a 10.
Women also understand “the hand.”
This is the most important contribution I’ve made to this community, so listen up.
Earlier this month I was at an ez-pickup bar in San Francisco. It was the end of the night.
I don’t know how, but I recognized Tyler Durden, famed PUA and foil in the original tome ‘The Game.’
Me: Hey, you’re that guy. What’s your name?
Me: No, what’s your real name?
Now, me and my friends have a thing where if one of us loses a bet or game of foosball, they have to open whatever set any other guy points out for the rest of the night. We call it that too, “open that set.” It’s closing time in this bar, and there’s one last cute blonde with her tall friend talking to some tall, bearded motherfucker.
Tyler and I chat for a second before I say, Tyler, that is the last hot girl in the whole place. Go open that set.
I will never forget what he did next.
He turned around, looked the girl in the eye and just held out his hand.
And she took it. She giggled a little bit first and demured, but he held his frame and she took his hand.
He pulls her in, bearded mofo fades away instantly, and within two minutes not only is the girl hanging off him but her friend is laughing and touching him all over.
That fucking hand is the most magical thing I’ve seen in my life. I drop that thing everywhere I go now. Super hot babe in a packed bar, swarmed by uglier friends and guys buzzing by trying to get her attention? Turn, hold out the hand, wait till she takes it and now she’s dancing in your arms thinking “who is this cocky motherfucker.”
Try it. Do it. Even the ones that resist, you can watch them squirm and see how hard it is for them to say no. Most comply, you’ve skipped the stupid “open” step and it’s on.
The ultimate opener has been discovered. Take this power. It’s yours now.
“The attitude dictates that you don’t care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin’. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude.”
But that’s just NOT HUMAN.
[heartiste: is bill clinton human? george clooney? your local frathouse president?]
Everyone craves a connection, a friend, a soulmate.
[no shit. an outcome independent attitude does not necessarily exclude a desire for connection. it simply makes the path of getting to that connection easier.]
You can’t always be in control, otherwise you end up isolated and alone.
What you’re describing isn’t alpha, it’s SOCIOPATH.
[i’m sorry that your last bf hurt you so badly.]
Why would you promote these dysfunctional relationships?
[i promote delivering on what women want. what women truly desire. you may as well ask why women promote wearing makeup and staying in shape.]
You need help.
[yeah, abiding your idiocy is bad for my mental health.
ps keep waving those empty creds!]
Translation: “I much prefer when men paw at me, buy me things and show me their emotional underbelly to get me to take my clothes off.”
No, wait that’s not right.
“I much prefer when I really like a guy so much I throw myself at him so we skip all that supplicatory gay stuff. You know, the kind of guy who has options and doesn’t care if I put out.”
Oh, oops, that’s not right.
“I much prefer my fantasy of how relationships are supposed to work.”
There we go. Perfect.
Girls need something controlling their lives. They seek a dominating influence to engage their neuroticism and give meaning to their emotions. In its absence, or when it wanes, they will want for another.
This is why unattached girls fill their lives with endless activity and schedules to keep busy. For single girls, going to Starbucks with their friends is important.
Every man is familiar with the 1-2 year mark where your girlfriend starts trying to drag you to more of her things. In the man’s mind, this is a good thing. She’s developing her own life, she has her own stuff going on. Then the day comes when she starts guilting YOU for not wanting to do HER stuff.
What happened is that your active command has waned and she has started scheduling activities and let them control her life again. It seems non-threatening because you’re not competing with another man. In reality you are now effectively competing with her agenda as the dominant force in her life. When she starts prioritizing her schedule over you– you’ve been cuckolded.
It’s an especially dangerous fitness test because passing a traditional fitness test means reframing and taking control of the dynamic. Failing means complicity with her submission to another influence, even if that influence is asexual. It also threatens to become habitual over time.
Even worse, men who comply often do so begrudgingly. This is subversive behavior- it implies you are not in control and is unattractive.
The omega in your picture is right. Man up and say ‘no’ for an answer.
18, 19, 13, anything with a 1 in it.
When I first graduated and moved back to the ‘burbs I took down three different 17-year-olds because that was the only show in town. A 5 foot hostess, a girl from a music show and a junior who liked to get high.
I hit em each once and never talked to them again because they sucked. Not in bed- they all sucked as people.
Different colored socks, B.O., nascent forgettable personalities. Awkwardness and stupidity.
I get it, old guys, I do. When you want a girl who looks amazing in booty shorts, then god damn nothing else matters. But none of those girls are keepers in my spank bank highlight reel. Youth isn’t a turn on for me anymore, though since my dating pool is 19-25 year-olds anyway, young might as well include 17 to you old farts even though it’s a world of difference to me. My advice, embrace the nagging suspicion in your jailbait fantasy that hanging out with teenagers kind of sucks and alpha up to find/create life’s real turn-ons. Stop being a woman rationalizing your Justin Bieber fantasies- age-of-consent historically, Muhammed’s wife, biological drive- don’t fall for something which doesn’t exist in the first place.
I do understand it though. Watch a 3-some, the smaller babe always gets it more than the bigger girl, even if they’re both hot. And that’s really the female mating strategy, be so much hotter than the chick next to you that the guy spends most his time banging you when he eventually pops his top. But there are plenty of skinny spinners and propellers out there to scratch that itch without having to dip into fucking high-school.
As someone who has been there, let me save you the trouble: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paris_syndrome
Remember, as an alpha it’s not that you don’t fuck girls because they’re too young- it’s because you have better options.
Also, eating pussy is a tacit reward for having a freshly shaved/bald snatch. Highly recommended that one.
CH pushed three stories at the same time on Friday. I think he was running a customer insight test.
1. Chateau to Mainstream – political/anti-feminism
2. Alpha of the Month – linkbait/manufactured controversy
3. Pussification – standard PUA/inner-game self-help
Linkbait was by far the most trafficked, with politics a distant second. Based on things CH has said recently, he’s clearly thinking about editorial ways to expand his readership (“I don’t think this blog will ever reach mainstream respectability as long as..”).
We’ll see if trends emerge. Makes sense to me as he sounds increasingly like a keyboard hero when writing about recent sexual escapades or boots-on-the-ground game. He’s probably too damn old to be gaming it up on the weekends successfully.