Always play it cool- and if it was a real relationship, mature. After the breakup, radio silence. Obviously. Then months/years later when she contacts you…
H: Hey, do you want to meet up (etc. etc.)?
Y: I mean, maybe..
H: What do you mean ‘maybe?’
Y: I mean, have you changed?
Cattle prod that hamster. Like a raptor in a steel trap.