“when I was a kid I used to steal these. from this store. don’t tell anybody.”
Poking fun at the situation, getting her to laugh.
The good news in this situation is, if she gives up that number under these pretenses, you are off to the races :)
Speaking of the “Alpha Male” here’s an interesting article on how to be an alpha male. These types of pieces are showing up more and more on social media: lists of qualities or qualifiers…
Check out how these qualities, obviously written by a woman contradict themselves: #10: willing to lose an argument to keep the peace which contradicts: #2 “he’s kind but not a push over…Chick logic….and also more evidence of how these lists confuse Blue Pill guys into thinking they need to be more like “that” in order to “win” over a girl’s heart. In this entire article it’s all about frame, her frame.
#11 whenever you need help he’s always there– wow. This is in my own personal experience the WORST advice ever. Being too available means you get taken for granted. How many times have I in my Blue Pill days helped a girl move, taught her some skill, done whatever only to have her dump me because i’m too boring. Now i’m being dumped for being too “selfish”.
If you want to be an alpha male, read this, then do exactly the opposite.
As for the alpha male walk: Cajun has that glide: from around 7:40
need game advice
went on a tinder date a few nights ago with a hottie. date went well all around, she started touching me early, we were making out by the first hour with some heavy petting. towards the end i went to try get her home (couldnt because she had work early in the morn)
text her the next day and she responded once and then didnt respond to my second message
im thinking that the heavy petting may have triggered some form of asd or buyers remorse in her
how do i save this
Hey man, good work so far and I agree with wala and primitive. The only thing I might do different than them before suggesting a meet up is to drop some non-sequitors in there first. I’ve noticed in the past that the bridge between a good date ended on some nice heavy play but not all the way, and then the next thing I text is “Hey let’s grab drinks at x” in the next day or so, I’m either met with excuses for why she can’t or just radio silence. The reason being is “Ok this guy just wants to hook up and I am NOT that kind of girl.”
Now I will sort of go backwards in the pickup to ease her mind a bit, almost like you are both flirting for the first time or at the beginning of a date. She’ll be more receptive in that headspace.
I’ve made this reference before but it’s kinda like at the horsetrack when a horse starts bucking and refusing to go into the starting gate, even though he’s done it thousands of times before in training. The trainers always pet it on the head, take it for a little walk away from the gate and by the time it gets back this time around it usually walks right in.
I got tested the other night with a “OMG you are weird” look the other night when I said something rediculous the other night. My reply:
“I got one question fo ya..” (*points to shoes*) “WHAT ARE THOSE?!?!?!?”
She cracked up because she had seen the vines. But I need to experiment with this more as an opener. Will report…
In case you don’t know what I’m talking about: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7xj6zZeYUU