The built in advantage, as pointed out on this blog many times over, is that when a short guy gets his game down, the contrast is so strong that it’s easy to stand out (heh) over the taller guys just leaning on looks, situational efforts, social circle etc.
Sort of like how there’s that one white guy hanging with a bunch of black dudes because they all know “that cracker is a crazy motherfucker, damn!” No one wants to fuck with him because he’s proven himself in one way or another, and he puts off that vibe that he’s willing to go to the wire any time of the day aka he “doesn’t care”, he has “let go” of what others think. And it’s not like the guy has to reaffirm how badass he is…other people just know and give him his space.
If you’re a short guy reading this and are new to the scene, here’s a reality that most taller/good looking guys don’t want you to know: they are scared. They lean on their brand (h/t TD) and don’t ever have to take a lot of risks to get girls. This catches up to them eventually because once they get into relationships or, worse, married, the girl will test her man over and over to see if he really is a “man” or the beta they suspect him to be.
Here’s your homework: Go to a bar tonight. Spot the hottest girl. Walk right up to her without hestitating, ask her “Is this bar the only one on this block that serves old fashioned’s?” Or whatever nontypical drink you can think. Bonus points if you can interrupt her talking to her friends or another guy. (When I get in my head, rusty game or whatever, this is exactly what I do to shake up my mind and get back to my “normal” instead of society’s normal aka buy into their bullshit.)
Here’s what you need to pay attention to: her eyes. If you do this 10 times, you will have more than a few super hot girls with a spark and I promise you they are thinking “who the fuck is this guy?” They will be pleasantly intrigued. Why? Almost no guy does this. And the ones that do are the ones she already expects would. You? You’re like the twist in her favorite TV show that she never saw coming, but always hoped would.
Further homework: reframe EVERYTHING in your mind to your favor. Girl was being bitchy to you? It’s fine, she knew your alphaness would be too smooth for her. Girls briefly glanced at you when you walked into the coffee shop? Yes, they want that dick just like the rest do.
I’ve been doing this shit so long now that I absolutely despise everything that is average. An average existence. An average girl. An average job. Everything. I opted out and couldn’t feel better.
Don’t enourage them! There are enough angry little guys snapping at my heels in the bars here as it is.
Step your game up
^^^ Scray gets it
To neg a tall woman, make references to petite, cute girls.
“You’re way too fucking short for me, sorry” always gets laughs