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Elliot Rodger, Sexual Entitlement, Father Abandonment, And The Anti-Boy Therapy Culture

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PimpinBlueStar
on May 30, 2014 at 10:25 am
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Los Angeles is a god awful place to raise a child. It’s not real. I lived there for a time and the amount of status signaling, posturing, social climbing…it is just flat out creepy. You can’t have a conversation with most people without them somehow relation EVERYTHING back to themselves. It’s as bad as you would expect. I don’t know, maybe for someone like Tyler Durden can play the club scene that long and maintain a level head but that shit eventually wore on me. People lack a soul there because they’ve sold it to move up.

I haven’t read too much into the Elliot situation yet beyond the highlights from the news, but I’d give it a 95% chance this kid was abused sexually as a child and his dad turned a blind eye.


  • whorefinder
    on May 30, 2014 at 12:17 pm
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    I remember an old commercial that nailed L.A. pretty well:

    “But enough about me, darling, let’s talk about you. What do YOU think of ME?”


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on June 1, 2014 at 9:15 pm
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      haha…on point for sure



Elliot Rodger, Sexual Entitlement, Father Abandonment, And The Anti-Boy Therapy Culture

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PimpinBlueStar
on May 30, 2014 at 10:25 am
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Los Angeles is a god awful place to raise a child. It’s not real. I lived there for a time and the amount of status signaling, posturing, social climbing…it is just flat out creepy. You can’t have a conversation with most people without them somehow relation EVERYTHING back to themselves. It’s as bad as you would expect. I don’t know, maybe for someone like Tyler Durden can play the club scene that long and maintain a level head but that shit eventually wore on me. People lack a soul there because they’ve sold it to move up.

I haven’t read too much into the Elliot situation yet beyond the highlights from the news, but I’d give it a 95% chance this kid was abused sexually as a child and his dad turned a blind eye.


  • whorefinder
    on May 30, 2014 at 12:17 pm
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    I remember an old commercial that nailed L.A. pretty well:

    “But enough about me, darling, let’s talk about you. What do YOU think of ME?”


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on June 1, 2014 at 9:15 pm
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      haha…on point for sure



Why Do Women Flirt More When They’re With Someone?

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PimpinBlueStar
on May 23, 2014 at 9:36 pm
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This also asserts proof as to why “asshole game” works…as a girl is scanning to see what her best option could be given her assets, the human nature proclivity to desire what we (perceive) is not available to us comes into play.

Something I’ll mention to for guys just getting into the game….the best “asshole game” (at least that I’ve run) is primarily JUST to get under her skin a bit. That’s it. It’s not about actually hurting her or even trying to knock her down…it’s just to convince her that she hasn’t won the game with me yet.

If she feels like she’s subtly being pushed away, like I’m not really “feeling her”, then she will naturally wonder why and seek to understand it. I will consciously do this in order to give her a little game to play (even if I REALLY am digging this chick…like, she’s the blonde, perky tits pretty face nice thigh gap type girl that I jack off to on pornhub). And this comes with months and months of discipline to say “OK pbs, she’s hot and I can tell her that, but not right now. There’s some work to be done. :)”

This isn’t with every girl (some are just sold on me no matter what, so pushing her away would not make sense….attraction is established and we can move forward). I don’t actually care about ruining a girls life or really hurting her feelings, and it all comes from a position of uncaring.

But lots of new guys fuck this up (I sure as hell did for a long time, believe you me). They hear “you gotta be an asshole to get chicks!” and while this may work every now and then, you’re actually getting the girl IN SPITE of this kind of behavior, not really understanding the mechanics behind it.

Two examples, one good, one bad that I have done in the past:

Me: “Hey what’s up…having a good time?” (body turned into her)
Her: (with a look of “why is this guy talking to me?”) Ummmm yea pretty good. (then looks at me like umm ok you’re weird)
Me: “So you just come out to not talk to anyone? That attitude isn’t very cute.”
Her: “Ok bye.” Backturns, and I’m done.

In this instance, there is a pang of “I want to stick it to this girl for making me feel bad” but mainly I’m just mad at myself because I don’t know how to talk to girls and be attractive.

Me: “Hey yo….having a good night?” (body towards the bar like I’m ordering, just being social)
Her: (with a look of “why is this guy talking to me?”) Ummmm yea pretty good. (then looks at me like umm ok you’re weird)
Me: “haha you have this look on your face like “motherfucker you are the 50th guy to come spit game at me tonight this better be good!!!” (my body is still sort of away and toward the bar)
Her: jokingly aggreeing “Oh yea totally this better be good!”
Me: “nah…you seem like you would make a good friend.” (then do a slight takeaway like I really am focussed on getting a drink rather than flirt, even break off communication)

Sometimes she reengages because she’s curious, sometimes I’ll reengage in a minute or two, but all of a sudden….I’ve done something most guys DON’T do and it’s very subtle…..I haven’t shown too much interest (overly shown my hand as to now she knows what I’m thinking)….now she’s a bit curious.

I’ll end this by saying, when i started out in game, I was largely direct but for me, aside from it really pushing my personal boundaries and not being scared of much afterward, it wasn’t all that efficient for me. Because of my short stature, I’ve had FAR much better success in being indirect as shown above rather than forcing the issue too quickly. It’s like I sort of play around the issue of sex where a girl who, on paper, is “out of my league” (either taller or just hot) and instead of appearing sold on her like every other chode, she’s curious and invested as to why I’m not drooling over her. I’m sure most girls even think I’m beta at first lol. I definietly play “sneaky fucker” game to the max.



Why Do Women Flirt More When They’re With Someone?

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PimpinBlueStar
on May 23, 2014 at 9:36 pm
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This also asserts proof as to why “asshole game” works…as a girl is scanning to see what her best option could be given her assets, the human nature proclivity to desire what we (perceive) is not available to us comes into play.

Something I’ll mention to for guys just getting into the game….the best “asshole game” (at least that I’ve run) is primarily JUST to get under her skin a bit. That’s it. It’s not about actually hurting her or even trying to knock her down…it’s just to convince her that she hasn’t won the game with me yet.

If she feels like she’s subtly being pushed away, like I’m not really “feeling her”, then she will naturally wonder why and seek to understand it. I will consciously do this in order to give her a little game to play (even if I REALLY am digging this chick…like, she’s the blonde, perky tits pretty face nice thigh gap type girl that I jack off to on pornhub). And this comes with months and months of discipline to say “OK pbs, she’s hot and I can tell her that, but not right now. There’s some work to be done. :)”

This isn’t with every girl (some are just sold on me no matter what, so pushing her away would not make sense….attraction is established and we can move forward). I don’t actually care about ruining a girls life or really hurting her feelings, and it all comes from a position of uncaring.

But lots of new guys fuck this up (I sure as hell did for a long time, believe you me). They hear “you gotta be an asshole to get chicks!” and while this may work every now and then, you’re actually getting the girl IN SPITE of this kind of behavior, not really understanding the mechanics behind it.

Two examples, one good, one bad that I have done in the past:

Me: “Hey what’s up…having a good time?” (body turned into her)
Her: (with a look of “why is this guy talking to me?”) Ummmm yea pretty good. (then looks at me like umm ok you’re weird)
Me: “So you just come out to not talk to anyone? That attitude isn’t very cute.”
Her: “Ok bye.” Backturns, and I’m done.

In this instance, there is a pang of “I want to stick it to this girl for making me feel bad” but mainly I’m just mad at myself because I don’t know how to talk to girls and be attractive.

Me: “Hey yo….having a good night?” (body towards the bar like I’m ordering, just being social)
Her: (with a look of “why is this guy talking to me?”) Ummmm yea pretty good. (then looks at me like umm ok you’re weird)
Me: “haha you have this look on your face like “motherfucker you are the 50th guy to come spit game at me tonight this better be good!!!” (my body is still sort of away and toward the bar)
Her: jokingly aggreeing “Oh yea totally this better be good!”
Me: “nah…you seem like you would make a good friend.” (then do a slight takeaway like I really am focussed on getting a drink rather than flirt, even break off communication)

Sometimes she reengages because she’s curious, sometimes I’ll reengage in a minute or two, but all of a sudden….I’ve done something most guys DON’T do and it’s very subtle…..I haven’t shown too much interest (overly shown my hand as to now she knows what I’m thinking)….now she’s a bit curious.

I’ll end this by saying, when i started out in game, I was largely direct but for me, aside from it really pushing my personal boundaries and not being scared of much afterward, it wasn’t all that efficient for me. Because of my short stature, I’ve had FAR much better success in being indirect as shown above rather than forcing the issue too quickly. It’s like I sort of play around the issue of sex where a girl who, on paper, is “out of my league” (either taller or just hot) and instead of appearing sold on her like every other chode, she’s curious and invested as to why I’m not drooling over her. I’m sure most girls even think I’m beta at first lol. I definietly play “sneaky fucker” game to the max.



Spiders, Diversity, And Seduction, Oh My

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Lumpy
on May 22, 2014 at 2:44 pm
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Soliciting suggestions from those more experienced with daygame.

I was at a mexican place getting lunch with a coworker today. A particular hottie walked in, and I passed on the opportunity to open her with a half-wall divider between us. As we finished eating, she was sitting down alone on the bar seats by the window. Blatant opportunity. She was trying to cover her white pants with paper napkins and I opened by telling her good luck with that.

Went good, chat chat. She’s from out of town and just moved here on monday, working a summer internship at her dream place. I talked to her more about that. Teased her more about her pants. Get the number. She’s turning 21 next week. This whole time I was standing and she was sitting, but we were within a foot of each other so I figured it didn’t matter hugely. Excused myself to get back to my co-worker who was waiting outside the restaurant. Maybe 4 minute interaction in total.

Waited about an hour and texted her: “We’re getting lunch tomorrow. Don’t wear white pants lol. What’s your next piece about?” [she does journalism]

I haven’t gotten a response and I don’t feel great about that text, but I’m not sure how to improve it. Retrospectively I think I should have not invited her out so directly and tried to get some rapport instead.

I looked her up online after texting. She won a beauty pageant in a regional city near here. lol. fuck.

Obviously, the better approach would have been to sit down with her and fucking instadate.

So, questions:
• What do y’all do if you’re out with people and hit it off with a girl you approach? I could have texted my buddy quick, “leave me” or something, but I didn’t think to do it. I run into a lot of instances of this, and in a lot of cases I can get away with ditching my friends but not all.

• What do y’all do about weird little social awkwardnesses, like she’s sitting there eating her lunch and I’ve already eaten, but I’ve eaten already? I suppose not be a pussy and plow through awkwardness like a boss. :)

• Onion-breath. lol. I always end up at mexican places talking to girls. And I feel awkward about it. A gameplan that popped into my head would be to walk down to a corner store with her after she finished up eating, buy some water and mints and offer to her of course “not presuming anything, but in case we end up smooching later” or something lol, and keep rolling on the instadate. Sane?


  • immoralgables
    on May 22, 2014 at 3:59 pm
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    Lumpy

    First of all, props playa.

    Going to be quick but here is the number 1 thing I want you to change up with your daygame that will solidify leads.

    STOP GETTING THE NUMBER AND VIEWING THAT AS THE GOAL

    now do this:

    START SETTING UP PLANS/MEET-UP IN THE SET AND USE THAT AS A MEANS TOWARDS THE GOAL.

    Straight-up.

    Ya the lunch idea was kinda ghey as drinks set a better frame and put you in a better position to succeed and pound that pussy.

    I read this tip from an avid daygamer in NYC who confirmed how his flake ratio went down when he set plans first and then got the number as a means to make the plans happen. His username on reddit is laserf0cus. Look him up and read his story.

    Girls give out the numbers all the time with little investment most of the time. But when you change your style up and get them to invest in making the plans it will benefit.

    What I do:

    After a 8min I ask where do they live, if they come into the city often (if they live outside). If they mention they live in another borough I tease and say that “We’d never workout with this long distance”. You don’t have to do that but it lightens the mood.

    After finding out crucial logistics info I say something how I’d be down to grab a drink at this awesome little place nearby (or wherever)

    Then ask what days of the week are good for her. I usually say Mon and Tues are good for me. Then push for that number and go from there.

    Go to text: Hey crazy girl, this is Immoral. Nice meeting ya ; )

    Then on day of reopen with something fun or whatever. I don’t like to confirm with a “Hey are we still on?” Or something gay. Use your judgment.

    Try this out. Make the plans AND then get the number.

    -IG


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on May 23, 2014 at 8:28 am
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      @IG

      Nice.



Spiders, Diversity, And Seduction, Oh My

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Lumpy
on May 22, 2014 at 2:44 pm
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Soliciting suggestions from those more experienced with daygame.

I was at a mexican place getting lunch with a coworker today. A particular hottie walked in, and I passed on the opportunity to open her with a half-wall divider between us. As we finished eating, she was sitting down alone on the bar seats by the window. Blatant opportunity. She was trying to cover her white pants with paper napkins and I opened by telling her good luck with that.

Went good, chat chat. She’s from out of town and just moved here on monday, working a summer internship at her dream place. I talked to her more about that. Teased her more about her pants. Get the number. She’s turning 21 next week. This whole time I was standing and she was sitting, but we were within a foot of each other so I figured it didn’t matter hugely. Excused myself to get back to my co-worker who was waiting outside the restaurant. Maybe 4 minute interaction in total.

Waited about an hour and texted her: “We’re getting lunch tomorrow. Don’t wear white pants lol. What’s your next piece about?” [she does journalism]

I haven’t gotten a response and I don’t feel great about that text, but I’m not sure how to improve it. Retrospectively I think I should have not invited her out so directly and tried to get some rapport instead.

I looked her up online after texting. She won a beauty pageant in a regional city near here. lol. fuck.

Obviously, the better approach would have been to sit down with her and fucking instadate.

So, questions:
• What do y’all do if you’re out with people and hit it off with a girl you approach? I could have texted my buddy quick, “leave me” or something, but I didn’t think to do it. I run into a lot of instances of this, and in a lot of cases I can get away with ditching my friends but not all.

• What do y’all do about weird little social awkwardnesses, like she’s sitting there eating her lunch and I’ve already eaten, but I’ve eaten already? I suppose not be a pussy and plow through awkwardness like a boss. :)

• Onion-breath. lol. I always end up at mexican places talking to girls. And I feel awkward about it. A gameplan that popped into my head would be to walk down to a corner store with her after she finished up eating, buy some water and mints and offer to her of course “not presuming anything, but in case we end up smooching later” or something lol, and keep rolling on the instadate. Sane?


  • immoralgables
    on May 22, 2014 at 3:59 pm
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    Lumpy

    First of all, props playa.

    Going to be quick but here is the number 1 thing I want you to change up with your daygame that will solidify leads.

    STOP GETTING THE NUMBER AND VIEWING THAT AS THE GOAL

    now do this:

    START SETTING UP PLANS/MEET-UP IN THE SET AND USE THAT AS A MEANS TOWARDS THE GOAL.

    Straight-up.

    Ya the lunch idea was kinda ghey as drinks set a better frame and put you in a better position to succeed and pound that pussy.

    I read this tip from an avid daygamer in NYC who confirmed how his flake ratio went down when he set plans first and then got the number as a means to make the plans happen. His username on reddit is laserf0cus. Look him up and read his story.

    Girls give out the numbers all the time with little investment most of the time. But when you change your style up and get them to invest in making the plans it will benefit.

    What I do:

    After a 8min I ask where do they live, if they come into the city often (if they live outside). If they mention they live in another borough I tease and say that “We’d never workout with this long distance”. You don’t have to do that but it lightens the mood.

    After finding out crucial logistics info I say something how I’d be down to grab a drink at this awesome little place nearby (or wherever)

    Then ask what days of the week are good for her. I usually say Mon and Tues are good for me. Then push for that number and go from there.

    Go to text: Hey crazy girl, this is Immoral. Nice meeting ya ; )

    Then on day of reopen with something fun or whatever. I don’t like to confirm with a “Hey are we still on?” Or something gay. Use your judgment.

    Try this out. Make the plans AND then get the number.

    -IG


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on May 23, 2014 at 8:28 am
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      @IG

      Nice.



Moments Of Alpha

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euinsumi
on May 19, 2014 at 5:09 pm
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lol all you idiots thinking you hard for insulting women. 200 bucks says none of you get any pussy. with atitudes like that lol. i think i beat up at least 3 guys for acting hard to women. you really are the lowest of the low. instead of alpha you should called yourself the shitty closet homosexual. lol. shitty idiots


  • PimpinBlueStar
    on May 19, 2014 at 6:12 pm
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    All I do these days is 1) fuck pussy, 2) eat snacks, 3) pass out.



Moments Of Alpha

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euinsumi
on May 19, 2014 at 5:09 pm
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lol all you idiots thinking you hard for insulting women. 200 bucks says none of you get any pussy. with atitudes like that lol. i think i beat up at least 3 guys for acting hard to women. you really are the lowest of the low. instead of alpha you should called yourself the shitty closet homosexual. lol. shitty idiots


  • PimpinBlueStar
    on May 19, 2014 at 6:12 pm
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    All I do these days is 1) fuck pussy, 2) eat snacks, 3) pass out.



Comment Of The Week: Deere John

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Will
on May 18, 2014 at 1:10 am
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This could just be me and let me know if it is.

For me and the good majority of my friends I find that we end up chasing girls. Even the alphas don’t have girls chasing them so much. I don’t get this it seems more naturally that a guy has the girl chasing him but I rarely see high smv girls chasing.

Do you just wait in this limbo until a girl chases you? It just seems rather bizarre how I haven’t seen very many guys get chased by a girl ever really. And the good 20+ friends are somewhat high smv guys


  • PimpinBlueStar
    on May 18, 2014 at 9:05 am
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    Unless there’s some sort of fame attached to the guy, yes, it is rare to see a girl full on “chasing” a guy the same way your average chode is laying it on thick to a girl at the local club…buying drinks, hotdogs on the hot pan from the immigrants outside, and by all means sweating to try to get her into the cab and into the glory hole. That’s a tough battle, right?

    Or unless the girl is a fatty and has no reserve in telling you how big her tits are and how she gives the best blowjobs, lest you juke her like Allen Iverson and run out the door (we’ve all had a few of these….AMMIRITE?!?)….

    IME…girl “chasing” is WAY more nuanced than most guys think. Any girl with high smv, BEFORE she will hook up (which is what she ultimately wants) are a few things to maintain: 1) she CAN’T look like a slut (which her girl friends, family, and gay orbiter chode boys will guilt her into…she’s being judged like a motherfucker by everyone, especially if she’s a hot piece of ass**) and 2) the guy she will potentially hook up with understands all of this, is cool with it, and willing work through her “filters” so that they are able to fuck and also she can maintain her good reputation with the people who would judge her like that.

    So….back to “chasing.” Because of all of this above, her chasing boils down to doing things like asking the guy questions, laughing a lot at what he says, playfully making fun of his shirt/hair/watch/etc…it’s about the WARMEST of an approach/interaction she can make it to show HER interest without actively coming on in the same way a horny guy would. In this instance, she is horny (damn near every one that is going out to a bar to have fun is)..and in her mind, will “the right guy rise to the occasion?” — meaning, will the guy who “gets” what’s going on (she’s chasing) pick up the ball and make this happen in a way that smoothly gets her away from everyone else so we can get primal?

    **All girls are different, and some are more willing to give it up and don’t care who knows it. Sorta like a sliding scale of sluttiness. I don’t judge em doh..they ain’t on trial.


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on May 19, 2014 at 10:54 am
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      @Junior

      When I decided enough was enough and I wanted more female relationships in my life, I did a LOT of daygame. For me the reasons were 1) I’m sober and 2) it frightened me…the thought of going up to a girl that normally I would just walk by and not say anything and instead do my best to make something happen…this would make me sweat just thinking about it. Especially the fact that she probably wouldn’t expect a guy to hit on her during the day. The fears I had were: this girl is going to think I’m an idiot, I don’t know what I’m going to say, these girls dont’ go for guys like me…

      As the story turns out, they do. What I see now is that I finally accepted myself as an alpha male who has relationships with the girls I want (not any particular girl, but the types of girls). I accept that some girls will REALLY like me, some hate me and I’m totally at peace with that. I was always an alpha male, it just took me looking in the mirror and accepting it.

      Whatever scares you (that you really want to do, like talk to gorgeous women) do it A LOT and be cool about it. If you can talk to a hot girl, not be needy and just treat her like a normal human being, you’ve done what 99% of people have not done. This is what I realized after doing a lot of daygame. If you are at peace with her may wanting to fuck you or not, then the dynamic won’t be too heavy and you can be the kind of guy who she feels comfortable around…whether it’s just as friends or more intimate.


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on May 19, 2014 at 11:03 am
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      @pitjama

      We clearly have a different definition of what a “slut” is. I would say the reason I fuck the girls that I do is because I don’t have the attitude you have. If a girl wants to have sex with 20 guys, why would I be mad about that? I mean, she had sex with me too, and I’m not trying to lock her down, so why bash her?

      My definition of slut is a girl who uses sex to hurt someone else. What she does when we’re not together is not my business, just as mine isn’t hers, and I’d rather make it all a good experience that everyone feels good about, instead of being a douche and make her feel bad for no reason other than I’m jealous that other guys are getting with her too.

      And to other guys new to the game, if you want to play the field for a while (I certainly enjoy it :)) … get used to letting girls do their own thing. Be the guy she wants to lock down by being attractive to lots of women instead of the beta douche who wants to lock down every girl he has sex with.



Comment Of The Week: Deere John

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Will
on May 18, 2014 at 1:10 am
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This could just be me and let me know if it is.

For me and the good majority of my friends I find that we end up chasing girls. Even the alphas don’t have girls chasing them so much. I don’t get this it seems more naturally that a guy has the girl chasing him but I rarely see high smv girls chasing.

Do you just wait in this limbo until a girl chases you? It just seems rather bizarre how I haven’t seen very many guys get chased by a girl ever really. And the good 20+ friends are somewhat high smv guys


  • PimpinBlueStar
    on May 18, 2014 at 9:05 am
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    Unless there’s some sort of fame attached to the guy, yes, it is rare to see a girl full on “chasing” a guy the same way your average chode is laying it on thick to a girl at the local club…buying drinks, hotdogs on the hot pan from the immigrants outside, and by all means sweating to try to get her into the cab and into the glory hole. That’s a tough battle, right?

    Or unless the girl is a fatty and has no reserve in telling you how big her tits are and how she gives the best blowjobs, lest you juke her like Allen Iverson and run out the door (we’ve all had a few of these….AMMIRITE?!?)….

    IME…girl “chasing” is WAY more nuanced than most guys think. Any girl with high smv, BEFORE she will hook up (which is what she ultimately wants) are a few things to maintain: 1) she CAN’T look like a slut (which her girl friends, family, and gay orbiter chode boys will guilt her into…she’s being judged like a motherfucker by everyone, especially if she’s a hot piece of ass**) and 2) the guy she will potentially hook up with understands all of this, is cool with it, and willing work through her “filters” so that they are able to fuck and also she can maintain her good reputation with the people who would judge her like that.

    So….back to “chasing.” Because of all of this above, her chasing boils down to doing things like asking the guy questions, laughing a lot at what he says, playfully making fun of his shirt/hair/watch/etc…it’s about the WARMEST of an approach/interaction she can make it to show HER interest without actively coming on in the same way a horny guy would. In this instance, she is horny (damn near every one that is going out to a bar to have fun is)..and in her mind, will “the right guy rise to the occasion?” — meaning, will the guy who “gets” what’s going on (she’s chasing) pick up the ball and make this happen in a way that smoothly gets her away from everyone else so we can get primal?

    **All girls are different, and some are more willing to give it up and don’t care who knows it. Sorta like a sliding scale of sluttiness. I don’t judge em doh..they ain’t on trial.


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on May 19, 2014 at 10:54 am
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      @Junior

      When I decided enough was enough and I wanted more female relationships in my life, I did a LOT of daygame. For me the reasons were 1) I’m sober and 2) it frightened me…the thought of going up to a girl that normally I would just walk by and not say anything and instead do my best to make something happen…this would make me sweat just thinking about it. Especially the fact that she probably wouldn’t expect a guy to hit on her during the day. The fears I had were: this girl is going to think I’m an idiot, I don’t know what I’m going to say, these girls dont’ go for guys like me…

      As the story turns out, they do. What I see now is that I finally accepted myself as an alpha male who has relationships with the girls I want (not any particular girl, but the types of girls). I accept that some girls will REALLY like me, some hate me and I’m totally at peace with that. I was always an alpha male, it just took me looking in the mirror and accepting it.

      Whatever scares you (that you really want to do, like talk to gorgeous women) do it A LOT and be cool about it. If you can talk to a hot girl, not be needy and just treat her like a normal human being, you’ve done what 99% of people have not done. This is what I realized after doing a lot of daygame. If you are at peace with her may wanting to fuck you or not, then the dynamic won’t be too heavy and you can be the kind of guy who she feels comfortable around…whether it’s just as friends or more intimate.


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on May 19, 2014 at 11:03 am
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      @pitjama

      We clearly have a different definition of what a “slut” is. I would say the reason I fuck the girls that I do is because I don’t have the attitude you have. If a girl wants to have sex with 20 guys, why would I be mad about that? I mean, she had sex with me too, and I’m not trying to lock her down, so why bash her?

      My definition of slut is a girl who uses sex to hurt someone else. What she does when we’re not together is not my business, just as mine isn’t hers, and I’d rather make it all a good experience that everyone feels good about, instead of being a douche and make her feel bad for no reason other than I’m jealous that other guys are getting with her too.

      And to other guys new to the game, if you want to play the field for a while (I certainly enjoy it :)) … get used to letting girls do their own thing. Be the guy she wants to lock down by being attractive to lots of women instead of the beta douche who wants to lock down every girl he has sex with.



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The Anti-Gnostic
on May 1, 2014 at 9:02 pm
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Off-topic. CH – you had better explain this one: George Clooney engaged to 36-yo battle axe


  • Matthew
    on May 1, 2014 at 10:31 pm
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    He’s gay. Just like all the other high-girlfriend-turnover Hollywood leading men.


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on May 1, 2014 at 11:10 pm
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      I did live in Hollywood for a time and, yes, I can confidently say 6 in 10 leading men are gay.



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The Anti-Gnostic
on May 1, 2014 at 9:02 pm
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Off-topic. CH – you had better explain this one: George Clooney engaged to 36-yo battle axe


  • Matthew
    on May 1, 2014 at 10:31 pm
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    He’s gay. Just like all the other high-girlfriend-turnover Hollywood leading men.


    • PimpinBlueStar
      on May 1, 2014 at 11:10 pm
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      I did live in Hollywood for a time and, yes, I can confidently say 6 in 10 leading men are gay.